As a result of disobedience to Parents

As a result of disobedience to Parents

     Every human being crave happiness and success, escape misery and failure in the world and the hereafter. This is where we get to know well the importance of the consequences of disobedience to parents, in addition to preparing supplies and professional devices to reach their goals.
Not infrequently we see children of disobedience to his parents, he had to face severe constraints, it is difficult to achieve happiness and success in life. Not to mention he had and certainly the face of the current severe suffering agony, and this never happened in the days of the Prophet. He himself could not lead him to maintain his faith except after his mother's forgiveness.

Not a few also rebellious child, it is very difficult to find and feel the happiness and peace in his life even though he has the professional ability and sufficient in the material. In fact, not uncommon among them almost desperate in his life due to his iniquities against both parents.
     The fact and the fact that we encounter in daily life that in this life full of energy, positive and negative, that can help us or otherwise hit our strength. So we lose control, the dark and unable to see the signs of happiness and true success.

This fact sign-rambunya often revealed by Allah and His Messenger and Ahl baitnya (sa). We must realize that the eyes of our birth, even our thoughts, have keterbatan to highlight the signs of it. Because the signs were far above the ability of eyes was born and analytical mind. Who knows it all perfectly just God and His Messenger and those of the holy Prophet's Ahlul temple.
Benchmark disobedience to parents

Allah Almighty says: "If one of them had been aged in pemeliharaanmu, then occasionally do you say to the two words' ah 'and do not be shouting at them, say to them the words of the noble." (Al-Isra' : 23).
One friend once asked the Prophet: Is the size of disobedience to parents?

Prophet replied: "When they told it did not comply with them, when they asked that he not give them, if they regard it as disrespectful to those rights that have been set out for them." (Al-Wasâil Mustadrak 15: 195)

Prophet once said to Ali ibn Abi Talib (sa): "O Ali, whoever saddens his parents, he was disobedient to them." (Al-Wasail 21: 389; Al-Faqih 4: 371)

• Depth sin of disobedience to parents

Messenger of Allah said: "Sin is the greatest major shirk in Allah and disobedience to parents ..." (Al-Mustadrak 17: 416)
Messenger of Allah said: "There are three kinds of sin that consequently hasten, do not be put on the Day of Judgment: disobedience to parents, oppressing people, and dissenter against virtue." (Al-Mustadrak 12: 360)
Messenger of Allah said: "... Above all there seditious seditious else except disobedience to parents. If a child kills between both parents, then there is nothing else on it iniquity. "(At-Tahdheeb 6: 122)

The consequences of disobedience to parents
Disobedience to parents to have an impact and effect that can be outside in the life of the world, when the agony, Barzakh in nature, and in the Hereafter. Due to, among others:

1. Wrath of God Almighty: In a Hadith Qudsi Allah says: "Verily, the first recorded by God in Lawhil mahfuz is the sentence:" I am God, there is no God but me, whoever that is blessed by both parents, then I meri¬dhainya; and whoever wrath by both of them, then I'm angry with him. "(Jâmi'us Sa'adat, collector happiness, 2: 263)
2. Hinder prayer and obscure life: Imam Ja'far Sadiq (sa) said: "... sin is decided silaturrahmi hasten death, sin hinders prayer and obscure life is disobedience to parents." (Al-Kafi 2: 447)
3. Wretched in the world and the hereafter: mam Ja'far Sadiq (sa) said: "disobedient to parents, including a great sin because God Almighty made in His word as a rebellious child as the arrogant and wretched:" Dedicated to my mother, and He did not make me the arrogant and wretched, (Surah Maryam: 32) "(Man lâ yahdhurul Faqih 3: 563)
4. Cursed by Allah swt: Messenger of Allah said to Ali ibn Abi Talib (sa): "O Ali, Allah has cursed the parents who give birth to children who rebel against them. Ali, God established due to his parents because of his iniquity, as a result of which certainly impinge on his son because of his iniquities ... "(Al-Faqih 4: 371) O Allah, do not make me the person who caused my parents cursed by you because kedurhakanku on them. O Allah, make me filial to my parents that you love them because kebarbaktianku on them. "Duhai brother, herein lies close inseparable relationship between us and our parents. How important instilling noble character education in our children, so we leave the most precious legacy that godly children, which can drain the joy and peace to us not only in the world but also in nature Barzakh and hereafter.
5. Excluded from the majesty of Allah: Imam Ali Ar-Ridha (sa) said: "Allah forbid disobedience to parents because of disobedience to them have been out of glorification of Allah and respect for the parents." (Al-Faqih 3: 565)
6. Charity virtue is not accepted by Allah swt: In a Hadith Qudsi Allah Almighty says: "For the sake of my Altitude, my majesty and glory of my position, if it were rebellious child to his parents to practice deeds of all the Prophets, surely I will not accept it." (Jâmi'us Sa'adat 2: 263).
7. Prayer is not accepted by Allah swt: Imam Ja'far Sadiq (sa) said: "Whoever looked at parents with a view hate when they do wrong to him, then his prayer is not accepted." (Al-Kafi 2: 349).                                                                                    https://syamsuri149.wordpress.com/2008/10/09/akibat-durhaka-kepada-orang-tua/